Nobody called it a play date. You just showed up, and if the sandwiches were already out, you got one. That was the unspoken law of the backyard picnic table.
The Picnic Table Was the Neighborhood Table |
Nobody called it a play date. You just showed up, and if the sandwiches were already out, you got one. That was the unspoken law of the backyard picnic table. |
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In the backyard of the house where I grew up, there sat a wooden picnic table with a crack down the middle of one plank. My father had built it from a kit he picked up at the lumberyard, and it was never meant to be fancy. The paint peeled, the benches wobbled, and by August the wood was too hot to touch at noon. But for the kids in our neighborhood, that table was the center of summer. |
It was not just our table. It was the neighborhood table. |
There was no schedule. There was no sign-up sheet. When you got hungry, you went home, or you went to the nearest house with a parent outside and a table that looked like it might have food on it. You did not call ahead. You did not bring a gluten-free alternative. You showed up, wiped the sweat from your forehead, and asked what was for lunch. If the answer was sandwiches, you sat down. If the answer was tuna casserole, you sat down anyway. |
My mother made sandwiches on a summer plate the size of a hubcap. Baloney and mustard. Peanut butter and jelly, cut on the diagonal because the diagonal made it taste better. She did not ask who was staying. She just kept making them until the kids stopped appearing. There was always a pitcher of Kool-Aid on the table, sweating more than we were, and a stack of plastic cups that smelled like the cabinet under the sink. Nobody cared. Thirst has a way of overriding snobbery. The Bakers from across the street, the Fontanas from around the corner, and whoever happened to be riding a bike past our driveway when the smell of lunch drifted out—my mother treated every one of them like family. Somewhere along the line, we traded that open gate for |
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